October 2008 Entries

I made slight variations to the below recipe: I substitued apple cider vinegar for the water (which the cornstarch is dissolved) and added 2 small apples and 1 onion, both wedged (apple cored) to the pan while the pork chops were cooking. The chops were heavenly and at only about 200 or so calories each, a healthful meal :) I use boneless chops -- for me it makes for easier cooking, eating, and reheating of leftovers

Enjoy:)

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(from All Recipes: http://allrecipes.com/recipe/grilled-apple-ginger-glazed-chops/detail.aspx#nutri-box )

Grilled Apple-Ginger Glazed Chops

SUBMITTED BY: Pam Anderson

"Grilled pork chops are basted with a flavorful sauce of apple juice, brown sugar and a touch of ground ginger."

PREP TIME  10 Min
COOK TIME  10 Min
READY IN  20 Min

SERVINGS

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INGREDIENTS (Nutrition)

  • 4 boneless pork chops, 1-inch thick
  • 1 tablespoon vegetable oil
  • 1 pinch salt
  • 1/4 cup packed brown sugar
  • 1/4 cup apple juice
  • 2 teaspoons soy sauce
  • 1 teaspoon ground ginger
  • 1 teaspoon cornstarch
  • 2 tablespoons water
  • freshly ground black pepper

DIRECTIONS

  1. Preheat an outdoor grill for high heat and lightly oil grate.
  2. Brush chops with oil and sprinkle with salt and pepper; set aside.
  3. In a small saucepan over medium heat, bring sugar, juice, soy sauce and ginger to a boil. Dissolve cornstarch in water and whisk into sauce until smooth. Simmer until slightly thickened.
  4. Place chops on hot grill. Cook, continuously brushing with sauce until grill marks form, about 5 minutes per side. Brush with sauce once more and continue to grill, turning once, until glaze sets or until internal temperature is 160 degrees F( 70 degrees C).

We toasted pumpkin seeds and they were delicious!! Although there are the sweet variations, we stuck to standard olive oil. It has a crunchy popcorn-esc taste that I love! Of course, I eat them as is -- I don't bother with removing the outer hull.

Hope you enjoy the fruits of the Season! :)

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Toasted Pumpkin Seeds Recipe

(from Simply Recipes: http://www.elise.com/recipes/archives/001438toasted_pumpkin_seeds.php)

Ingredients

  • One medium sized pumpkin
  • Salt
  • Olive oil

Method

1 Preheat oven to 400°F. Cut open the pumpkin and use a strong metal spoon to scoop out the insides. Separate the seeds from the stringy core. Rinse the seeds.
2 In a small saucepan, add the seeds to water, about 2 cups of water to every half cup of seeds. Add a tablespoon of salt for every cup of water. Bring to a boil. Let simmer for 10 minutes. Remove from heat and drain.
3 Spread about a tablespoon of olive oil over the bottom of a roasting pan. Spread the seeds out over the roasting pan, all in one layer. Bake on the top rack for 20 minutes or until the seeds begin to brown. When browned to your satisfaction, remove from the oven and let the pan cool on a rack. Let the seeds cool all the way down before eating. Either crack to remove the inner seed (a lot of work and in my opinion, unnecessary) or eat whole.

Thanks, Mom! You were a wonderful teacher for me :)

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Kelly, you are right on track for teaching Xander and Xaven ALL they need to know at their ages.  How did I ever raise such a smart young woman?  I thank God daily that He gave me such a wonderful daughter and such a wise mother for my dear grandsons.  I love you very much, momma
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Preschool learning: What should a 4 year old know?

Preschool learning: What should a 4 year old know?
Written by Alicia Bayer   
I was on a parenting bulletin board recently and read a post by a mother who was worried that her 4 1/2 year old did not know enough. "What should a 4 year old know?" she asked.

  Most of the answers left me not only saddened but pretty soundly annoyed. One mom posted a laundry list of all of the things her son knew. Counting to 100, planets, how to write his first and last name, and on and on. Others chimed in with how much more their children already knew, some who were only 3. A few posted URL's to lists of what each age should know. The fewest yet said that each child develops at his own pace and not to worry.

It bothered me greatly to see these mothers responding to a worried mom by adding to her concern, with lists of all the things their children could do that hers couldn't. We are such a competitive culture that even our preschoolers have become trophies and bragging rights.

Childhood shouldn't be a race.

So here, I offer my list of what a 4 year old should know.

1. She should know that she is loved wholly and unconditionally, all of the time.

2. He should know that he is safe and he should know how to keep himself safe in public, with others, and in varied situations. He should know that he can trust his instincts about people and that he never has to do something that doesn't feel right, no matter who is asking. He should know his personal rights and that his family will back them up.

3. She should know how to laugh, act silly, be goofy and use her imagination. She should know that it is always okay to paint the sky orange and give cats 6 legs.

4. He should know his own interests and be encouraged to follow them. If he could care less about learning his numbers, his parents should realize he'll learn them accidentally soon enough and let him immerse himself instead in rocket ships, drawing, dinosaurs or playing in the mud.

5. She should know that the world is magical and that so is she. She should know that she's wonderful, brilliant, creative, compassionate and marvelous. She should know that it's just as worthy to spend the day outside making daisy chains, mud pies and fairy houses as it is to practice phonics. Scratch that-- way more worthy.

But more important, here's what parents need to know.

1. That every child learns to walk, talk, read and do algebra at his own pace and that it will have no bearing on how well he walks, talks, reads or does algebra.

2. That the single biggest predictor of high academic achievement and high ACT scores is reading to children. Not flash cards, not workbooks, not fancy preschools, not blinking toys or computers, but mom or dad taking the time every day or night (or both!) to sit and read them wonderful books.

3. That being the smartest or most accomplished kid in class has never had any bearing on being the happiest. We are so caught up in trying to give our children "advantages" that we're giving them lives as multi-tasked and stressful as ours. One of the biggest advantages we can give our children is a simple, carefree childhood.

4. That our children deserve to be surrounded by books, nature, art supplies and the freedom to explore them. Most of us could get rid of 90% of our children's toys and they wouldn't be missed, but some things are important-- building toys like legos and blocks, creative toys like all types of art materials (good stuff), musical instruments (real ones and multicultural ones), dress up clothes and books, books, books. (Incidentally, much of this can be picked up quite cheaply at thrift shops.) They need to have the freedom to explore with these things too-- to play with scoops of dried beans in the high chair (supervised, of course), to knead bread and make messes, to use paint and play dough and glitter at the kitchen table while we make supper even though it gets everywhere, to have a spot in the yard where it's absolutely fine to dig up all the grass and make a mud pit.

5. That our children need more of us. We have become so good at saying that we need to take care of ourselves that some of us have used it as an excuse to have the rest of the world take care of our kids. Yes, we all need undisturbed baths, time with friends, sanity breaks and an occasional life outside of parenthood. But we live in a time when parenting magazines recommend trying to commit to 10 minutes a day with each child and scheduling one Saturday a month as family day. That's not okay! Our children don't need Nintendos, computers, after school activities, ballet lessons, play groups and soccer practice nearly as much as they need US.

They need fathers who sit and listen to their days, mothers who join in and make crafts with them, parents who take the time to read them stories and act like idiots with them. They need us to take walks with them and not mind the .1 MPH pace of a toddler on a spring night. They deserve to help us make supper even though it takes twice as long and makes it twice as much work. They deserve to know that they're a priority for us and that we truly love to be with them.

And now back to those 4 year old skills lists.....

I know it's human nature to want to know how our children compare to others and to want to make sure we're doing all we can for them. Here is a list of what children are typically taught or should know by the end of each year of school, starting with preschool:
http://www.worldbook.com/wb/Students?curriculum

Since we homeschool, I occasionally print out the lists and check to see if there's anything glaringly absent in what my kids know. So far there hasn't been, but I get ideas sometimes for subjects to think up games about or books to check out from the library. Whether you homeschool or not, the lists can be useful to see what kids typically learn each year and can be reassuring that they really are doing fine.

If there are areas where it seems your child is lacking, realize that it's not an indication of failure for either you or your child. You just haven't happened to cover that. Kids will learn whatever they're exposed to, and the idea that they all need to know these 15 things at this precise age is rather silly. Still, if you want him to have those subjects covered then just work it into life and play with the subject and he'll naturally pick it up. Count to 60 when you're mixing a cake and he'll pick up his numbers. Get fun books from the library about space or the alphabet. Experiment with everything from backyard snow to celery stalks in food coloring. It'll all happen naturally, with much more fun and much less pressure.

My favorite advice about preschoolers is on this site though:
http://www.redshift.com/~bonajo/early.htm

What does a 4 year old need? Much less than we realize, and much more.

You can read more of Alicia Bayer’s other articles, poems, and crafts at Magical Childhood

The boys and I all piled up and headed toward the mountains for the Remlinger Farm Fall Harvest. We spent the whole day there and we all had a blast :)

We met some friends of Jeff's at the farm, and they had a little girl just Xander's age. The two of them hit it off really well and enjoyed the hay maze, rides, and pumpkins together :)

Pictures to follow if I can ever clear up my homeserver issues!

I can't believe we've reached another birthday for my baby! He grows and changes so quickly - I'm am always amazed my my sweet boys!

I gave Xaven his first haircut on Sunday afternoon -- he didn't want to sit still for a professional, so we sat him in the highchair at home and I whacked away at the long hairs when I could. It isn't perfect (what is perfection anyway?!?), but he looks cute . . .

... and SO grown up! It's amazing how the haircut can make the difference between looking like a baby and being a babe!

Although I will miss not having little babies anymore, watching the boys grown, change, and become thier own people is so rewarding. It's definately the toughest job I've ever loved :)

So, I've received several responses from my elected officials on my rant of why we SHOULD NOT bail out Wall Street and let the market take care of it.

I understand the short term pain will be difficult; but much like a band-aid, ripping it off is much less painful in the end than slowly tearing out every hair underneath the sticky mess you've made . . .

That being said, in the interest to pass on my new found "knowledge" from one of my representatives, here is the email I received back from Representative Murray (oh, BTW, I'm not crying a river and singing Kumbaya at the end . . .):

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Dear Ms. Handley:

 

Thank you for contacting me about H.R. 1424, the Emergency Economic Stabilization Act of 2008. I appreciate hearing from you about this important issue. The U.S. Senate voted to pass this bill by a margin of 74-25 on Wednesday, October 1, 2008. H.R. 1424 is now being considered by the U.S. House of Representatives.

 

As you know, in communities across America today, people are finding it increasingly difficult to fill up their tanks, pay for health care, and afford college tuition. Now, all Americans, even those who have paid their bills on time and have excellent credit, are at risk of being severely affected by the current credit freeze on Wall Street.

 

People want to know if this crisis is real. I have asked the same question of Treasury Secretary Paulson and Federal Reserve Chairman BernankeI have spoken with economic experts and Washington state business leaders. Companies like Weyerhaeuser and Microsoft have made it clear that something must be done. Power utilities such as Avista and the farm groups such as the Farm Bureau have told me that the government's proposal to stabilize our financial markets is critically needed. Throughout various sectors of our economy, there is deep and genuine concern about market collapse and the potential impact on jobs, credit and pensions.

 

We have already experienced a slowdown in home sales and construction. Our home state bank, Washington Mutual, was unable to withstand the crisis and was acquired by another institution.  Millions of Americans have tried to obtain a loan or refinance their mortgage, but have found it increasingly difficult to find a willing line of credit and in many cases have been unable to do so at all. If this crisis worsens, credit could freeze completely for consumers and companies who use credit to pay their employees or run their business operations. The bottom line is that without a steady stream of credit, American businesses will not be able to pay their workers and Americans will lose their jobs. Because of the impact the financial crisis could have on all Americans, from layoffs to access to credit, I supported the Emergency Economic Stabilization Act of 2008.

 

I understand the frustration of people who want those on Wall Street to be held accountable for their actions and shoulder the consequences of their own misdeeds. Americans are being confronted with two undesirable options. Either do nothing and let the crisis worsen, or take action and use taxpayer dollars to solve a problem they did not create. Americans are rightfully angry. However, those who created the problem will not be those who are hurt most if the government does not act. My top priority is to do what is best for the people of Washington State and the nation, and that is why I believe government action is urgently needed in this situation.

 

The original plan presented to Congress by President Bush and Secretary Paulson was a non-starter.  Congress rightly refused to give Secretary Paulson a blank check to spend hundreds of billions of dollars without oversight. Congress refused to allow executives of failing companies to walk away with millions of dollars in severance packages while taxpayers paid for their mistakes. This legislation is a more prudent agreement to anchor taxpayer dollars to strict Congressional oversight and scrutiny by independent economic experts. We added assistance for responsible borrowers hit by the foreclosure crisis and plans to recoup money from any institutions which use government money and then see a profit. In the future, it is possible that most, if not all, of the taxpayer money invested will be returned once this crisis comes to a close. 

 

Congress has to be vigilant in our oversight of how this law is implemented. I fought to ensure that every transaction that takes place regarding this funding will be on the Internet for all Americans to see. In addition, I strongly support the Federal Bureau of Investigation's (FBI) and other state and federal agencies' investigation into the wrongdoing related to the current crisis on Wall Street. If fraud and criminal activity are uncovered, the individuals responsible must be prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law.

 

Congress must take a hard look at the factors that brought us to this point and seriously address them. Congress will be holding ongoing hearings into the causes of this crisis and the regulation reform that is desperately needed and has been missing throughout the duration of the Bush Administration. The next administration has to work with Congress to pass and implement new regulatory measures so that taxpayers are never put in this position again.

 

It will take both investment and honesty to get our economy back on track. The next administration will inherit this economic crisis along with many other serious challenges. I hope our new President is honest with the American people about where we stand and what it will take to move America forward. 

 

I believe that to move America forward, we need to invest in the infrastructure and education that create economic growth and jobs. We have to invest in our workforce and find a way to make health care affordable and accessible. We have to increase funding for research and development and reward innovation. We have to implement a smart, forward-looking energy policy that ends our addiction to foreign oil. It is time to put America's families first and restore their faith that government works for, not against them.

 

I grew up with a country at my back - one that when my own father got sick and could no longer work was there with Pell Grants and student loans and even food stamps when my family needed them.  I will always remember that. I supported this legislation because the American dream of owning a home or going to college is simply too important to take a back seat to politics or to be put at risk by the misdeeds of Wall Street.

 

As Congress continues to work to restore our economy, I will continue to stand up for our state and listen to your concerns. Thank you for contacting me, and please do not hesitate to contact me in the future.

 

I hope all is well in Redmond.